Sunday, February 15, 2009

Baby-faced boy Alfie Patten is father at 13



BOY dad Alfie Patten yesterday admitted he does not know how much nappies cost — but said: “I think it’s a lot.”

Baby-faced Alfie, who is 13 but looks more like eight, became a father four days ago when his girlfriend Chantelle Steadman gave birth to 7lb 3oz Maisie Roxanne.

He told how he and Chantelle, 15, decided against an abortion after discovering she was pregnant.

The shy lad, whose voice has not yet broken, said: “I thought it would be good to have a baby.

“I didn’t think about how we would afford it. I don’t really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me £10.”

Alfie, who is just 4ft tall, added: “When my mum found out, I thought I was going to get in trouble. We wanted to have the baby but were worried how people would react.

“I didn’t know what it would be like to be a dad. I will be good, though, and care for it.”

Alfie's story, broken exclusively by The Sun today has sparked a huge political storm with Tory leader David Cameron saying: "When I saw these pictures this morning, I just thought how worrying that in Britain today children are having children.

"I hope that somehow these children grow up into responsible parents but the truth is parenthood is just not something they should be thinking about right now."
Secret

PM Gordon Brown refused to comment directly on the story but said it was important that the Government did all it could to prevent teenage pregnancies.

Alfie’s dad Dennis yesterday told how the lad does not really understand the enormity of his situation — but seemed desperate to be a devoted and responsible father.


He wanted to be the first to hold Maisie after the hospital birth. He tenderly kisses the baby and gives her a bottle.

And Dennis, 45, said: “He could have shrugged his shoulders and sat at home on his Playstation. But he has been at the hospital every day.”

Maisie was conceived after Chantelle and Alfie — just 12 at the time — had a single night of unprotected sex.

They found out about the baby when Chantelle was 12 weeks pregnant.

But they kept it a secret until six weeks later when Chantelle’s mum Penny, 38, became suspicious about her weight gain and confronted her.

After that Alfie’s family told only those closest to them for fear he would be “demonised” at school.


Chantelle gave birth to Maisie on Monday night after a five-hour labour at Eastbourne Hospital, East Sussex.

Last night she told The Sun: “I’m tired after the birth. I was nervous after going into labour but otherwise I was quite excited.”

Chantelle told how she discovered she was expecting after going to her GP with “really bad” stomach pains. She said: “Me and Alfie went. The doctor asked me whether we had sex. I said yes and he said I should do a pregnancy test. He did the test and said I was pregnant. I started crying and didn’t know what to do.

“He said I should tell my mum but I was too scared.

“We didn’t think we would need help from our parents. You don’t really think about that when you find out you are pregnant. You just think your parents will kill you.”

But Penny figured out what was going on after buying Chantelle a T-shirt which revealed her swelling tum.

Chantelle admitted she and Alfie — who are both being supported by their parents — would be accused of being grossly irresponsible. She said: “We know we made a mistake but I wouldn’t change it now. We will be good loving parents.

“I have started a church course and I am going to do work experience helping other young mums.

“I’ll be a great mum and Alfie will be a great dad.”

Chantelle and Maisie were released from hospital yesterday. They are living with Penny, Chantelle’s jobless dad Steve, 43, and her five brothers in a rented council house in Eastbourne. The family live on benefits. Alfie, who lives on an estate across town with mum Nicola, 43, spends most of his time at the Steadmans’ house.

He is allowed to stay overnight and even has a school uniform there so he can go straight to his classes in the morning.

Alfie’s dad, who is separated from Nicola, believes the lad is scared deep down.


He said: “Everyone is telling him things and it’s going round in his head. It hasn’t really dawned on him. He hasn’t got a clue of what the baby means and can’t explain how he feels. All he knows is mum and dad will help.

“When you mention money his eyes look away. And she is reliant on her mum and dad. It’s crazy. They have no idea what lies ahead.”

Dennis, who works for a vehicle recovery firm, described Alfie as “a typical 13-year-old boy”.

He said: “He loves computer games, boxing and Manchester United.” Dennis, who has fathered nine kids, told how he was “gobsmacked” when he discovered Alfie was to be a dad, too.

He said: “When I spoke to him he started crying. He said it was the first time he’d had sex, that he didn’t know what he was doing and of the complications that could come.

“I will talk to him again and it will be the birds and the bees talk. Some may say it’s too late but he needs to understand so there is not another baby.”
Lovely

Chantelle’s mum said: “I told her it was lovely to have the baby but I wish it was in different circumstances. We have five children already so it’s a big financial responsibility. But we are a family and will pull together and get through.

“She’s my daughter. I love her and she will want for nothing.”

Last night Michaela Aston, of the anti-abortion Christian charity LIFE, said: “We commend these teenagers for their courage in bringing their child into the world.

“At the same time this is symptomatic of the over-sexualisation of our youngsters and shows the policy of value-free sex education just isn’t working.”

Today Sussex Police and the local council's children services said they have investigated the case and pledged continued support for the young parents.

Britain’s youngest known father is Sean Stewart. He became a dad at 12 when the girl next door, 15-year-old Emma Webster, gave birth in Sharnbrook, Bedford, in 1998. They split six months later.

Source: "The Sun Article"

valentine '09

i woke up 7am in the morning yesterday..
its too early pa, but i cant sleep na eh..
so i think of something na pwede gawin,
then bigla ko naisip na wala pa kong gift kay Mar..
tumayo ako, at naghalungkat na pwedeng irecycle..
haha.. joke lang..
kumuha ako ng mga art materials ko at ng mga kapatid ko..
at nagsimulang gumawa ng card..
too early pa rin kasi para pumuntang mall at bumili ng gift..
so naisip ko, mas maganda na rin yun, personalized..
tapos mga bandang 9am ng umaga, nagtext si pao,
"tey, gumagawa ako ng chcolates ngayon, oorder ka ba?"
sabi ko, "sure, igawa mo ko ng worth P100..daanan ko ng 11am.."
tapos yun.. pinaglinis ako ng bahay ni mommy pagkatapos ko gumawa ng card,
so yun,after ko maglinis, naligo na ko, nagbihis, at pumunta kina pao..
pagkakuha ko ng chocolates, nakipagkwentuhan na lang saglit tapos umalis na kasi 1pm kami magkikita ni Mario sa Megamall..
pagdating ko sa mall, saktong 1pm..
daming bulaklak na nagkalat..
dami rin syempreng lovers na magkakayakap sa paligid..
pumunta na ko sa meeting place namin..
wala pa sya.. so i texted him..
10minutes later, dumating na sya.
malayo pa lang, tanaw ko na sya..
wala syang dala..
aww.. pero nung lumapit na sya..
hinugot nya sa kung saan ang card na nakabalot pa ng nat'l bukstore..
hindi ko muna binasa.. binigay ko na yung gift ko sa kanya..
hindi nya rin muna tinignan at binasa..
"12pm pa ko nandito..
iniisip ko kung anu ibibigay ko sayo..
hanggang ngayon wala akong naiisip..
bulaklak sana..
kaso, naisip ko baka malanta lang sa concert..
 tsaka sakin mu rin lang yun ipapadala eh..
 kaya mamaya na lang paguwi natin.. ha??"
wais si bf.. oo nga naman. haha..
so yun, pumunta na kami sa MOA.
hindi naman masyado traffic..
kaya maaga rin kami nakarating dun..
umaambon.. shet.. KJ ang panahon..
diretso kami sa hypermarket,
at binili ang paborito namin..
ang roasted quarter chicken with rice na 49 lang isa..
(oo kuripot ako eh..)
tapos hinanap namin ang foodcourt
punong puno at super crowded dun..
madali naman kami nakahanap ng mauupuan..
bumili pa rin si Mar ng peyborit din naming lumpiang sariwa sa CHicken company..
nabusog ako ng bonggang bongga..
lalo na sya.. nakatatlong rice sya ng kanin,.. hahaha,,
nagpahinga kami habang nanunuod ng mga sumesemplang sa ice skating rink,.
ng bumaba na yung kinain namin,
mga 4.30pm na yata nun,
ayun, bumaba na kami sa may seaside..
may lumapit na agad saming nagtitinda ng closeup lovapalooza tickets..
with free toothpaste pa..
bumili kami, tapos nagparegister sa VIP,as couple..
soobrang saya.. nagenjoy talaga ako ng bonggang bongga..
astig tumugtog ng Bamboo, tsaka ni RIco Blanco..
okay na rin ang Spongecola..
pero nilangaw talaga ang Pupil..
nainterview pala kami ng "The Buzz"
tumanggi na kami sa GMA, bastos kasi yung reporter,.
pagtapos ng event at fireworks display..
(na sobra naming namiss kasi matagal na kami hindi nakapunta ulit sa MoA
 dahils a kabusyhan sa skul at OJT..)
ayun, umuwi na kami..
syempre nahirapan kaming sumakay..
ng dumating na kami sa guadalupe..
nakakita kami ng nagtitinda ng flowers..
then pinapili nya ko..
nagaalangan akong pumili ng boquet kasi baka wala syang pera,
so, ang pinili ko yung 4roses lang..
pero hindi sya pumayag..
yung boquet yung binili nya..
(M: binigay NYA sakin toh para pambili ng bulaklak para sayo,
kaya ibibili ko lahat toh..)
at binigay sakin..
hehehe.. syempre super kilig ako..
(t: san mu nakuha yung pera mu..
M: kagabi ko pa iniisip yun, nagtry ako tumaya sa karera.. ayun, nanalo..
t: astig naman.. pag kinakailangan talaga natin ng pera, binibigyan NYA tayo..
M: oo nga eh.. nagpasalamat nga ako sa KANYA kagabi eh..)
hinatid nya ko hanggang bayan ng pateros..
tapos umuwi na kami pareho..


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I would like to thank:

Nat'l Bukstore:for the card..

(beh. mahal na mahal kita.. ikaw lang po ang babaeng minahal ko ng ganito, masayang masaya ako dahil nakilala kita..
saung sau ang pagmamahal ko. buong buo. walang kahati. ILOVEYOU. -RAM)

Paulyn: for the chocolates

my Brothers: for the art materials

SM Hypermarket : for the Roasted Quarter Chicken with Rice..

Chicken Company: for the Lumpiang Sariwa..

Close UP, MoA, MTV: for sponsoring the Lovapalooza Event..

and most of all..

MARIO GARVIDA LABASTIDA..


(thank you for everything..
you gave me happiness that i thought i couldn't have..

i love you..
sooo much..
and you're the man i've been waiting for soo long..



"you can thank your stars all you want but..
I'LL ALWAYS BE THE LUCKY ONE"



HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYONE!!






Sunday, February 1, 2009

Reproductive Health Bill

Napaguusapan na dati ang Death Penalty..

Ngayon, anu naman ang say nyo sa Reproductive Health Bill..

sangayon ba kayo dito? or against??

The Roman Catholic Church dub it “Deaths Bill.” Deaths stands for divorce, euthanasia, abortion, total population, homosexuality and sex education.

For the benefit of those who have not read the proposed bill, which was already approved in the committee on health and was referred to the Appropriations Committee for approval of its appropriations provision, here are some of its key provisions:

1.) Mandates the Population Commission to be the central planning, coordinating, implementing and monitoring body for effective implementation of the act;

2) Provides for the creation of an enabling environment for women and couples to make an informed choice regarding the family planning method that is best suited for their needs and personal convictions;

3) Provides for a maternal death review in local government units, national government hospitals and other public health units.

4) Ensures the availability of hospital-based family planning methods such as tubal ligation, vasectomy, intrauterine devise insertion and other family planning methods in all national and local government hospitals except in specialty hospitals;

5) Considers contraceptives and other allied health products and supplies as essential medicines and supplies and shall form part of the National Drug Formulary and the same time shall be included in the regular purchase of essential medicines and supplies of all national and local hospitals.

6) Provides for a mobile health care service in every congressional district to deliver health care goods and services;

7) Provides mandatory age-appropriate Reproductive Health Education starting from Grade 5 to fourth year high school;

8) Mandates the inclusion of the topics on breastfeeding and infant nutrition as essential part of the information given by the city or municipal office of the family planning;

9) Penalizes the violator of this Act from one month to six months imprisonment or fine raging from P10,000 to P50,000 or both such fine and imprisonment at the discretion of the court.(-from reproductivehealth.com.ph)

For full view on the Bill.. Click here.